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male ass play - top or bottom?
Thinking about having anal sex, but don't know if you're a top or
bottom?
Some people think in order to be a bottom, you must be
the effeminate or lesser dominant partner. And vice-versa for a top.
But, this isn't always the case. A person's preference for
topping (or penetrating your
partner during anal) and bottoming (receiving anal) is most often
determined by which they get more pleasure from (if any at all), not
how they act outside of the bedroom.
That's why the best way to
determine if you're a top or bottom is to experiment with your
partner. If you keep an open mind and go into sex without a
pre-determined idea of what should happen, you and your partner will
likely fall into your natural preferences.
Sure, some guys know
right away which they prefer, even before having sex for the first
time. Chances are, even if they've never had anal with another guy,
they have experimented during masturbation, which is also a good way
to discover your pleasure preference.
And even still, some guys
prefer not to label themselves or are more versatile, meaning they
enjoy both topping and bottoming.
Sex is best had without
anxiety. A calm, cool, relaxed body and an open mind can reward some
pretty amazing sexual experiences. Instead of writing the script of
what your anal encounter should be, go in with a blank canvas and let
your body take control.
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